I still have to disagree with both of you here. I dont know how it is for you britt or for your wife Neg, but I can get instantly wet enough to comfortably have sex. Now dont get me wrong, it does not happen like that every time but it has happened to me personally. I mean everyone's body is different. As far as the lube thing goes I do not use it either. I have before but I do not like the way it feels. If it is one of those times where I do need help with lubing up I get him to lick down there instead. As far as the size goes I'm sure a really really big penis would need more lube or spit which ever.

quoting Neglection:

There is always the standard deviation from the norm, I accept that. But I am telling you that there is pretty much no way that you get instantly wet enough to comfortable have sex without additional lube, like a male can get instantly hard and be ready to go. Now my experience tells me this and without getting into it further, the larger the penis the more lube is needed.

yeah, there's no way to get INSTANTLY wet. i'll give you that, but like..getting undressed, getting in a bed, and getting to it is enough time to get ready.

but i've only ever used lube once, i've never needed it (haha, and it's not because my husband is small, that's for damn sure. i just have no issue getting ready). but it was that KY Yours & Mine.. fuck. that. shit. it's the most worthless lube EVER. seriously.. it was so bad i wanted to return it (i didn't because that's embarrassing). i dunno why we tried it, but we didn't need it and it just sucked.

There is always the standard deviation from the norm, I accept that. But I am telling you that there is pretty much no way that you get instantly wet enough to comfortable have sex without additional lube, like a male can get instantly hard and be ready to go. Now my experience tells me this and without getting into it further, the larger the penis the more lube is needed.

quoting rainingpoison:

That is so not true Neg. Sometimes all I have to do is just look at my bf and I am instantly wet and ready to go.
Yes sometimes it does take a little longer and if I am in a bad mood I can not get into it at all, but for the most part it does not take me that long. I guess it really depends on how attracted you are to the person, or for me; the love and passion you have for the person.

i gotta agree with her. it takes me no time to get ready. my husband can spray his cologne and i'm ready to go.

it's never happened with previous boyfriends (in fact, my husband is the first man i've ever enjoyed having sex with), i didn't want to have sex with other people because they couldn't turn me on. and if i couldn't be turned on..they couldn't get me off. but my husband turns me on (sometimes without knowing.. and uniforms! haha) and never fails to get me off, and i think it's because i think he's the most attractive guy ever, and i love him more than my life itself.

That is so not true Neg. Sometimes all I have to do is just look at my bf and I am instantly wet and ready to go.
Yes sometimes it does take a little longer and if I am in a bad mood I can not get into it at all, but for the most part it does not take me that long. I guess it really depends on how attracted you are to the person, or for me; the love and passion you have for the person.

And I agree with you Blem, for the times when you want really good sex and have the time it is great to give oral before intercourse. My thoughts on what counts as oral play into this. See, when a guy is hard he is ready to go, like 5 seconds and he is ready to rock out with his cock ... in. But females are different, there is no 5 second turn on for a female, it akes time, and it takes foreplay. Oral stimulation is great in this instance because it quickens the process a little bit. And it usually feels really good, if the guy knows how and what the female likes. I heard a study once that said that the average female would like between 15 and 20 minutes of foreplay while the average male wanted between 5 and 10. That is mostly simply biological, it it is how our bodies work.

I enjoy giving oral and receiving as much as intercourse. Most of the time I prefer to have oral sex before intercourse. It just makes it so much better.

oral is foreplay. even if the guy does get off, it's not the same. I don't have a problem giving oral, but that's usually when the other party "has a headache" or something

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I dont consider it oral sex unless I get off, just the same for her. I suppose 75 / 25 for me.

Personally, for me: I like Intercourse about 70 %; with me reciving Oral, I'd give that about 30 - 40 % [depending on how it's done]; and giving Oralis different, because that's anywhere between 10 and 30 % [due to a quick gag-reflex I have, no matter how much I practice I always feel the need to throw up if I go too far]; I enjoy foreplay, though - but who doesn't really? If I had to rate my enjoyment of Anal or "Other" course*, it would have to be .05 % ~ however, my rating of said *other-course [when inebriated] is 10 %.

Its half and half for me.
50% oral
50% intercourse

Its visa versa with me on the oral. I would rather recieve it than give it. Although I do try to keep it even and if he makes me cum I will make him cum too.

i prefer intercourse over everything.
but i'd rather give oral than recieve.

i like intercourse 50%
i like giving oral 20%
i like receiving oral 20%
i like other stuff 10%

Can't say that I do. It's nice and all, but it can't ever get me to that point.