» posted on 1:28pm - March 21 2009 | posted by private

Ok, so I'm having this problem with my wife. See, I'm a little larger than average, not huge, but your average white porn star size. It is a real problem though because my wife hurts when we have sex. It's not even completely the length, it is the width too. She said that if she could, she woud take an inch or more off of the length and like 1/2 inch or so off of the sides. She gets her fix of orgasms in like the first few minutes then she just wants me to nutt because it starts to hurt her.

So guys, trust me on this one, bigger is not always better. Most females cannot take those porn star sized penises, furthermore, they wont enjoy the sex because it hurts.

Can any females in here attest to this?

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posted by: PoyzenGirl · date: 4:47am - June 07 2009

Just be glad your name isn't Jonah Falcon with his 13.5 erect penis!

i have been with someone with a less than average sized penis & a couple with larger than average & of course i've been with average sized guys. altho the 'larger than average' guys didn't cause me pain, i have to say that it wasn't nearly as enjoyable as the average sized guy (& i know a lot of that has to do with the nerve endings and where they are located).

but i do agree that motion (like going too fast) could hurt her a lot more as well as being in a bad position (especially one of the deeper ones) could make things worse. Maybe a lot of lube and trying a few positions at a slower pace might help her out? It's a thought.

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posted by: Britt · date: 7:26am - March 22 2009

i can't handle too big. i have toys that are too big. my husband, especially if we've been apart for a while, can feel too big. i think he's on the larger side of average. but if we've been apart for a while certain positions can hurt because i feel like there's extra pressure. if my husband were any bigger, neither of us would enjoy sex at all, i think.

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posted by: TuLzie · date: 9:40pm - March 21 2009

It depends i would say.

But from my past experience if the size is making me uncomfortable, i asked them to slow down because the motion would put more pressure and pain. Slowing down helps me to adjust my position to accommodate my partner better.

So in other words, yes sometimes it can be painful but it also depends on how i adjust myself too.

And also maybe you and your wife can look into dyspareunia, a condition that makes intercourse painful during or after sex for the women.

I hope you guys can work something out. best of luck!

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