» posted on 5:27pm - March 01 2009 | posted by Neglection

Just like the title says, how much foreplay is optimal for you? I know everyone is different, so that is why I'm asking everyone. When I ask for how much, I'm generally referring to an amount of time in minutes.

How much foreplay do you think is optimal?
How much foreplay do you usually have?
How much foreplay do you think your partner thinks is optimal?



Me, personally, I think the perfect amount of foreplay is when she starts demanding cock. But I'm a pretty selfless lover. If I were in sex only for myself, there would probably be little foreplay (1-3 mins) most often, although there would be nights of teasing and biting, but we would use lube all of the time, and lots of it, because I wouldn't wait for her to warm up.

What about you?

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» posted by: Blem · date: 2:42am - March 03 2009	rated: N/A
If I'm sober I like foreplay from 10-20 minutes. If I'm not I find foreplayless and extremely rough sex works just fine. lol. Usually I get about 5-10 min of foreplay.. bleh. I don't think my partner really require any foreplay, he's always up and ready whenever I need it. But I'm sure he enjoys some 5-10 min oral before intercourse. ~~~~~~~~~~ Meng
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» posted by: TuLzie · date: 5:31pm - March 02 2009	rated: N/A
it really depends if i am in the mood for it. sometimes a long day at work or school really kills it for me. if i am, then i like to fool around. anything from kissing, oral play, a teasing show, or anything else that would get me aroused and that could take up about 10 minuets to an hour + . but of course sometimes im just in the mood already and things would saddle up before any foreplay is done. as for the partner (looking around at an empty room) the average time would be about 5 minuets to 30 depending on their mood. ~~~~~~~~~~ "we are our own devil, we are our own devil.... and we''ll make this world our hell"
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» posted by: Geist · date: 12:52am - March 02 2009	rated: N/A
Me, personally, I love it. It's kinda my fav part. The anticipation. I love to mess around and tease forever and ever until she's shaking saying it's too much and begging me to just fuck her and I like when the same is done to me, on those rare occasions. There's nothing sexier than seeing your lover arch their back, hearing the soaking sounds from between their legs in between the moans through barred teeth. They're trying to scramble away from the strong sensations while clamping tightly onto you with nails, teeth, thighs, whatever they can use to drag you with them cause all they want is for you to stop while that's the last thing on their mind. God damn I love foreplay.... ~~~~~~~~~~ Acceptance is not as powerful as submission.
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» posted by: Britt · date: 6:52pm - March 01 2009	rated: N/A
okay. foreplay CAN be fun. but it can be awful at the same time. only because my husband is amazing at it and he likes to tease. see, i can be ready to go so quick. the way his cologne smells on him can turn me on.. and he knows where to touch me. like around my knees and messing with my ears will get me going and he'll start touching those places hours before we go to the bedroom.. but then he just gets evil about once we're in bed. i'll beg and demand and he keeps going. sometimes he'll let it go for up to an hour.. just depends on how much time we've spent apart. and it's not like it takes him all that time to get ready. he's ready to go from the first minute he starts. but he just loves to tease. so really.. in terms of minutes. about a minute is all it takes for either of us to get ready.. 10-30 minutes is optimal just because it's fun, provided we have time. and as far as how much time i think he thinks is optimal.. anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour depending on how evil he feels. ~~~~~~~~~~ . i want . i love . i need . i breathe . . i lust . i trust . i cheat . i bleed .
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