» posted on 3:56am - June 08 2009 | posted by PoyzenGirl

my question is, regardless of whether you are gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual or what-have-you..

do you feel it is *necessary* to have sex (or any sexual contact) with a person of your preference before you can consider yourself a certain sexual orientation?

do you feel that people are born with their sexual orientation or do you feel like it is something they can choose freely?

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» posted by: guest (69.92.154.146) · date: 12:28pm - October 23 2009	rated: N/A
Ever since I was like 14 I was always attracted more to girls than guys. Girls are my lovers and guys are my sex toys. (I am a female)

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» posted by: xcom · date: 5:50am - June 22 2009	rated: N/A
I think both sexes have that potential.... it is just more socially exceptable for women to explore it still. ~~~~~~~~~~ _X/
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» posted by: TuLzie · date: 11:49pm - June 21 2009	rated: N/A
personal story i was outside having a cigarette break while at work and a girl jogged passed me. The prettiest lady and very attractive, as according to my taste. She has a natural reddish/orange hair. Medium size and toned body type and her face reminded me of those angelic fairy with really light complexion. Piercing dark eyes. I felt physically attracted to her, lol, but i also know that i am a female (lacks the right equipment for certain activities) but lately i have been finding myself more attracted to females. Although i dont know if i would ever act upon..... again..... My boss said that girls are three shots away from being bisexual, haha there is some truth to that. ~~~~~~~~~~ "we are our own devil, we are our own devil.... and we''ll make this world our hell"
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» posted by: darwin · date: 5:59am - June 10 2009	rated: N/A
i think most people know who they are attracted to from the get go. but i also believe that though you may not think you could feel attracted to another sex, things can definatly change. sometimes you end up doing things you never thought you would do....and liking it! ~~~~~~~~~~ i don't know, let me see let me think
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» posted by: xcom · date: 7:41am - June 08 2009	rated: N/A
I'm not altogether sure either. Many people can consider themselves a preference though without confirming it though. I know of a few girls I dated or had long running friendships with who had identity issues over sexual preference but were really just to afraid to be with either option. ~~~~~~~~~~ _X/
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» posted by: TuLzie · date: 5:21am - June 08 2009	rated: N/A
Interesting question personally I would say no but then again you have to do the deed before confirming whether or not you are of that orientation (kinda like saying well i'm an artist but i havent done any art yet, its a little hard to tell when there is no actions to base the judgment on) I think its something that they can choose freely unless there has been some scientific proof that confirm that we are born with certain orientation and preference. ~~~~~~~~~~ "we are our own devil, we are our own devil.... and we''ll make this world our hell"
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