One word: Kegal.

2 fingers if its been awhile, and i prefer two.

3 if things get really heated and i and up for a challenge.

anything more would require training and a lot of lube.

i just reread through this.. after seeing what i said, nothing has changed. even after having regular sex for a year before my husband went to bootcamp.. he was lucky if he could 3 fingers in.

and i gotta agree with belangaria.. muscles down there! haha. when my husband gets me off, i can get him off simply by having an orgasm because it squeezes him. and he 'complains' about my tightness sometimes because he says it hurts him a little. it makes sex awesome.

Well I just came (no pun intended) across this thread now, and suffice to say, I've had a kid, so with something that size coming out..... all I can say is thank fuck for muscle structures!

Girls, with enough stimulation, and patience, you can fit just about ANYTHING up there. Lev, I've seen a video of a woman with a rugby ball. And it was TOTALLY in there. And yes, it was real.

Stretching helps with things like babies. but within a few hours, any stretching tends to die down. The conception of my little girl was the last time I had sex (since I split with the dad shortly afterwards) and she's almost 2 now. I have been "involved" with someone (just not full sex) and he commented on the fact that he was expecting a lot more "looseness" considering I'd had a baby. Now it may just be that I'm blessed with a fantastic muscle structure down there, (when I orgasm, guys dont have to do anything as the pulling of the muscles does it all for them!) and I'm very lucky, or maybe all women have this with a little flexing of their pelvic muscles.

I can fit 2 comfortably, at times 3. Two seems to be a good number for me.

owned.

thank you, darling.

it was the whole attitude in your post also. where you pretty much said everyone should be like you. just coz you can shive 4 fingers up in you, or don't have pain, doesn't mean everyone else does or doesnt.


and no, usually i don't have anything better to do. thanks.

maybe you just shouldn't doubt people or think things are 'stupid' (which you did say) before you know all the answers.


darwin.. relaxation isn't even part of it. it's some psychological shit i've developed in the last few years.

"Let´s all be one all-loving-hippie coomunity"

are you kidding....if you put all these people in the same place at the same time...there would be blood shed
oh the humanity

Come on now folks! No hard feelings please... Let´s all be one all-loving-hippie coomunity

Yupp, relaxed or not makes one hell of a difference.

if there is one thing i've learned..it's to relax....i remember my first vaginal exam i was really nervous (my first attemps at sex were somewhat difficult)...my cousin told me that the worse thing i could do was tense up.
it works for more than just your vagina too.


so i can understand how your mind works britt....but you really should start trying to overcome it.

to be quite honest.. i have a slight case of vaginimus. (if you don't know what it is entirely, go look it up). if i insert something my mind thinks is too big.. then my body things it's too big, and the muscles down there close up real quick. which causes a lot of pain. i don't need to be called a liar coz i said i can only fit 2 fingers in. after that it gets uncomfortable and painful.

and i'm not sexually active right now. so, having something as big as 4 of my fingers hasn't been anywhere near me. and i'm not in any rush for it to be coz i know the pain it'll cause.

so, banshee, just coz some people have problems which they weren't willing to share the first time, i shared mine the second time since you deemed it stupid. i hope the explanation showed you that not everyone is a liar.

Well I have had one girlfriend that could not manage 2 fingers... and she was in her 30s...

Have had plenty of girls who liked 3-4 fingers and at least 4 that wanted to try my whole hand. Only one succeeded, and I do have big hands!!!!

There are actually a few times that we had to not do it because it just wasn't fitting. It's frustrating and embarrasing...

ok...i guess i forget that there are girls out there that are still virgins or have had few sexual encounters.
my first time i flung him off me cause it did hurt....he had to work at it...add a finger each time we messed around before he could put his penis in.

Banshee, I don't know about the other girls, but I'm telling the truth. During sex it even hurts and the largest guy I was with was like...6 1/2. What I don't understand is I do masturbate regularly, but I'm still very tight. Sometimes I masturbate 3 times a day. (I'm a very horny little girl ^_^) It is possible, but I'm sure a lot of girls lie about it. But if you don't believe me, catch a plane to Florida, US and you can check me out yourself. Hmm, I'm being quite open on an open website...hmm...

lol true unless the guys stupid ..... i can fit more than two yes but thats because i am at my boyfs house like everyday/every other day. but yea *cough* not alot else to say meh.

here's a basic rule of thumb though; the more you are sticking someone in (and the larger objects you stick in the looser it gets). It's quite easy to tell if a girl is pleasuring herself on a regular basis because her hole is usually looser than normal.

I don't really care what anyone says or thinks, but it's true as xDeathlySilence said that sometimes 2 fingers should hurt the girl. i dont want to get into anything over personal here or anything, but i know for a fact that somegirls only can barely have one finger up.

It's all a matter of how regularity and maybe it might be a lot different if you've had a kid or kids (i don't know cause i've never dont someone who had kids).

But in general yeah, some women are probably lying when they say they can't fit more than 2 up there. I dont want to make it outl like im calling anyone a bitch or anything. The truth is, darwin is kinda right; many girls always claim less than capable. But from experience I know some can be quite tighter as to where a single pinky would give pain... anywho.

u know the best thing about meaning a man?

men probably jerk off a lot more (on average) than most women (on average), but fortunately for men their genitals don't fluctuate in size or shape when you play with 'em! lol so chicks can never really tell if a guy has been fucking around or masturbating a lot, but on the contrary it's usually pretty easy to tell for guys.

For me, I've been able to get 3 in, but it hurts like hell. Darwin, you're right...it does hurt. The last time I had sex, I cried -- no joke. How sad is that? Good thing I like pain, eh? I'm with Britt though...I prefer stimulation to my clit A LOT more than penetration. Even my vibrator hurts. It makes the guys happy, but it annoys the hell out of me...sometimes I wish I wasn't so tight, and wonder if something is wrong with me (stfu), but seriously...it's annoying.

ok..i don't mean to be rude...or call anyone liars...but if you can only get two fingers in (and i'm assuming your hands are average...not too big not too small) then sex with just about any man would be painful.....i mean think about it....hold two fingers together and see how small that actually is.